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Why Good Plans Don’t Survive Contact With Reality

Most project failures don’t begin with bad plans.

They begin with good ones.

Well-structured.
Carefully sequenced.
Reviewed and approved.

The plan made sense — at the time.

This field guide is about why plans break anyway — not because planning is useless, but because reality refuses to stay still long enough to respect it.

Planning Assumes a Stable World

Plans are built on assumptions.

 

That:

  • Requirements will remain coherent

  • Stakeholders will stay aligned

  • Priorities will hold

  • Decisions will be timely

 

At the moment a plan is approved, these assumptions feel reasonable.

Reality’s first move is to invalidate at least one of them.

The Plan Is a Snapshot, Not a Contract

 

A plan captures understanding at a point in time.

It does not:

  • Predict behavior

  • Control power

  • Freeze incentives

  • Prevent change

 

Treating a plan as a promise creates fragility.

Treating it as a hypothesis creates resilience.

Why Detailed Plans Fail Faster

 

The more detailed a plan becomes, the more brittle it is.

Detail assumes:

  • Certainty

  • Continuity

  • Agreement

 

When any of those shift, detail turns into rework.

Teams don’t abandon the plan because they’re careless.
They abandon it because following it would now be irrational.

Plans Fail Quietly Before They Fail Publicly

 

Plans rarely collapse dramatically.

They erode.

 

They show up as:

  • “Temporary” workarounds

  • Minor resequencing

  • Small scope accommodations

  • Deferred risks

 

The plan remains on paper.
Delivery moves elsewhere.

By the time the deviation is visible, the plan no longer describes reality.

Why Plans Are Defended Long After They’re Broken

 

Plans provide safety.

They:

  • Anchor accountability

  • Justify decisions

  • Protect reputations

 

Admitting the plan no longer fits feels like admitting failure.

So teams defend it.

 

They update status.
They reinterpret milestones.

Reality keeps changing anyway.

The Plan Was Never the Problem

 

When plans fail, the blame usually follows:

  • “We didn’t plan enough”

  • “The plan wasn’t detailed”

  • “We should have anticipated this”

 

But most failures don’t come from missing foresight.

They come from:

  • Delayed decisions

  • Unowned change

  • Power shifts

  • Human behavior

 

No plan survives those intact.

What Good Planning Is Actually For

 

Good planning does not prevent change.

It:

  • Creates shared understanding

  • Surfaces assumptions early

  • Reveals dependencies and risk

  • Provides a starting point for adaptation

 

A good plan doesn’t survive reality.
It teaches the team how to respond when it doesn’t.

Plans Fail When They’re Treated as Control Mechanisms

 

Plans become dangerous when they’re used to:

  • Enforce compliance

  • Resist new information

  • Silence escalation

 

At that point, the plan is no longer a guide.

It’s a constraint reality will eventually break — violently.

Reality Is Not the Enemy of Planning

 

Reality doesn’t invalidate planning.

It completes it.

The value of a plan is not in its endurance —
but in how quickly and honestly it can be revised when the world changes.

“Plans collapse fastest when decision-making is delayed or avoided.”

Link “decision-making is delayed or avoided” to:
Decision-Making Failures in Projects
 

Project Planning Myths (And Why Plans Still Matter)

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